Hi.  Welcome to my downfall....lemme explain. 

You see i've been thinking alot recently, maybe even a little too much as to what it is I need to make my little side feel more around, and kids of all shapes sizes and age, whilst they may hate it, thrive on routine and rules.  This is something I think sammy really needs to stop the real world overwhelming her and making her retreat.  So I give you my starchart.  I'm also going to write up sammys rules but obviously I hafta discuss them with daddy first 

Rules:

Eat breakfast

Go to bed when daddy says so

Dinner should be eaten whilst wearing a bib,  it gets messy otherwise

No chocolate unless its as a reward (curly wurly, buttons)

No unpaddedness at any time

No setting anything on fire

Currently working towards:

Going to the museum of childhood = 110 stars.

 Currently all stars have been collected, starchart on postponment until after xmas

Current total = 110+ stars